What matters MOST to you as a Bride-to-Be?

True or false:  “When planning my dream wedding, I have to please everyone to keep the peace…”


When it comes to planning your wedding, you want to make sure that when you walk down the aisle, you are experiencing the wedding of YOUR dreams, and not someone else’s.

You don’t want to be carrying resentment for 15 years into your marriage because you let things that mattered to you in your wedding go unmentioned. So instead of keeping silent, make sure you Know What Matters so that you can go into meeting with vendors and family with strong boundaries & a united front with fiance!

Need help figuring out what your NON-negotiables are when it comes to planning your wedding?  See below… I’m sharing an exercise to help you figure out what matters most to you when it comes to YOUR wedding!

{Blissful Bride Exercise}

Wedding flowers bouquetIt’s important to get it out of your head and on to paper to figure out what matters most. So, grab a sheet of paper and brainstorm the things that come to mind as things that you care most about most. As you read back through your list, narrow it down a little further by circling the things that really stand out to you as mattering most. These items are your matter NON-negotiables.

Have you already compromised with anything on this list? If so, make a little star next to it and go back and write an action step you can do to make this a priority again.

As always, I’d love to hear from you – what was your biggest takeaway from today’s exercise?  Leave me a comment below the blog letting me know… and also feel free to share what one of your non-negotiables are! I’d love to know!

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